Monday, 29 October 2012

Pet Crematorium features in new Dog Book

Pet Crematorium features in new

Dog Friendly Gardening Book

Dog-friendly Gardening: Creating a safe haven for you and your dog
I readily admit that I receive a regular stream of calls that other people would consider strange or bizarre and it is rare that I admits to an enquiry ever taking me by surprise, but when Karen Bush contacted me to ask if I would contribute to her book on gardening I was left lost for words!

I am not the world’s greatest gardener and so luckily for me the book in question was called “Dog-friendly gardening – creating a safe haven for you and your dog” and Karen’s request was for some expert advice on pet cremation and burial, as well as information on ways to remember your much loved pet after their death. 

Although I have been asked to contribute to articles before this is the first time I have been involved in a book on gardening!  Karen’s book is a must read for dog lovers as it gives easy to follow advice on, amongst other things, how to make your dog’s environment safe, stimulating and fun for them. 
 
I was really flattered when I was asked to help in the chapter entitled “Goodbye, dear friend” and there is a lovely photograph of my wonderful dog Mikey included in the book.  I still have Mikey’s ashes beside me in my office since his death in 2007 but plan to scatter them in the gardens at Dignity Pet Crematorium when I’m ready.  I can even join him when my time comes now we have permission to also scatter human ashes in our grounds!

Pet death is a taboo subject that many pet owners do not want to think about until their pet is either diagnosed with a life limiting illness or they are faced with the decision to put them to sleep.  This means people are often rushed into making a choice as to what to do with their pet’s body immediately after their death.  Many owners just go with what their vet suggests; and with most vets contracting to weekly collection firms this can lead to their pet being frozen then taken away like waste rather than receiving the dignified send-off that the owner would have perhaps preferred. 

Thinking about it in advance means that people can do their own research and choose a more personal service at a specialist individual pet crematorium or cemetery if they wish.  Alternatively they can opt to bury their pet in their own garden, although they must always consider beforehand what they will do if they move house.
The Author, Karen Bush, has written regularly for leading national magazine Your Dog since its inception and has authored 18 other books to date.  Covering safety, planting (and what not to plant), garden projects and much more Dog-friendly gardening is packed with helpful and innovative ideas to help both owners and their dogs enjoy their garden.   Following the death of her rescue dog Boris, Karen chose to take him to Dignity Pet Crematorium to be individually cremated.  When writing her book she felt that it should also provide owners with help and advice on pet loss. 

 
 
Published in July 2012 and priced at £12.99, the book is now available from the publisher (HubbleandHattie.com), Amazon & other good bookstores.  For media enquiries please contact the publisher Jude Brooks on 07870 623980
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Friday, 6 July 2012

Pet Cremation approved by Hampshire Trading Standards

Pet Crematorium gets Trading Standards Seal of Approval


Award winning Dignity Pet Crematorium has become the region’s only pet crematorium to gain approval from Trading Standards having been accepted into their Buy With Confidence Scheme.



Pet Cremation Service in Hampshire, Berkshire & Surrey gets Trading standards approval
Kevin from Dignity Pet Crematorium receiving certificate
Launched in 1999 the scheme provides consumers with a list of local businesses which have given their commitment to trading fairly. Every business listed has undergone a series of detailed checks before being approved as a member of the scheme. 


Kevin Spurgeon said “Sadly the reputation of pet crematoria has been tarnished by scandals in recent times – most notably the Peak Pet Cremations fraud case.  We hope being accepted onto the Buy With Confidence Scheme will help reassure both pet owners and veterinary practices by giving them more confidence that the pet cremation service we offer is being described honestly and accurately to them.  I hope this will prompt other pet crematoriums to join the scheme.”
Hampshire Pet Crematorium
Membership of the scheme is not given lightly – amongst other checks, each applicant will have their complaints history reviewed and will receive a visit from Trading Standards. Good references are required from previous customers and applicants must agree to abide by the scheme's code of conduct, which requires them to follow the letter and spirit of the law.

The family run business is also delighted at being ranked 1st out of 810 pet service providers throughout the UK after receiving a string of glowing reviews from their customers on the Freeindex website.

Pet Crematorium ranked 1 in pet service providers

Kevin explains “We are the only pet crematorium to have live, independent reviews displayed on our website.  Our average rating is currently 5 out of 5 and we have been truly humbled by the kind things people have said about us in their reviews.  It spurs us on to do our best to help owners give their pet the send-off it deserves.”

3 acres of peaceful grounds, same day individual pet cremations
Dignity Pet Crematorium started in 1992
This summer the pet crematorium will be celebrating it’s 20th anniversary.  Dignity was started by Barry and Carole Spurgeon in 1992 after being distressed by a documentary showing the way pets were treated like waste after their death.  Barry, a fashion agent for 30 years, wanted their dog Brutus to have a more respectful end and so came up with the idea of using the Grade 2 Victorian Brick Kiln in their garden to provide individual pet cremation services.


Barry says “Worryingly, nothing has changed much and the way pets are treated varies considerably so it’s important owners do their own research before the day so they can make an informed decision as to who looks after their pet when the time comes.”

For more information about Dignity Pet Crematorium's individual pet cremation services in Hampshire, Berkshire, Surrey, Buckinghamshire, London and surrounding areas just visit the Dignity Pet Crematorium website.  For other pet crematoria visit www.appcc.org.uk

Monday, 16 January 2012

Pet Bereavement Book Review - Bill at Rainbow Bridge by Dan Carrison

Bill at Rainbow Bridge by Dan Carrison

A Review by Kevin Spurgeon, partner at award winning Dignity Pet Crematorium based in Hampshire (UK).

Having read countless pet bereavement publications over the years it isn’t very often that I’ve encountered a book dealing with pet loss that comes at you from a completely different direction. “Bill at Rainbow Bridge” does exactly that. 

Before I started reading the book I had a couple of reservations and some preconceived ideas about what to expect - mainly because it was written by an American author who I’d not heard of before and because, to be perfectly honest, the illustrations weren’t exactly my cup of tea.

When I finally got round to reading the book I wished that; firstly, I had picked it up a lot sooner and secondly, that I hadn’t been naïve enough to have any preconceptions! 

The book, although fictional, is based on the author’s own experience of pet loss and tells the stories of “Bill” (a deceased bulldog) and his former owner David.  It starts with Bill’s arrival at Rainbow Bridge then switches back to David who, six weeks on from the death of his much loved dog is struggling to come to terms with his loss.

The story touches on many of the emotions that we experience when grieving for our much loved family pets and I found the concept of the reader coming to understand their own feelings by exploring the grief David was going through worked really well. 

The book also offers great comfort through the message that hopefully, when we die, we don’t just disappear but our soul (the spark of life that makes us who we are – be it dog or human) lives on in another form.  I caught myself welling up at various points during the book as it brought back memories of how I felt when I lost my own pets.  I do hope there is a Rainbow Bridge where we all go to when the time comes.


For people struggling to come to terms with their loss I would suggest they read “Bill at Rainbow Bridge” alongside a pet bereavement help book like “Losing a Pet” by Jane Matthews.  In addition it is also really beneficial to talk through your feelings with someone from the PBSS (Pet Bereavement Support Service - UK) or you can contact a pet bereavement counsellor like David does in “Bill at Rainbow Bridge”.

Either way I would wholeheartedly recommend reading this book if you are.  It is available in the UK on kindle as an e-book and can be purchased at Amazon.co.uk or you can buy a hard copy for £9.50 (including first-class postage) via the UK distributor (tel. Caroline on 01406 331421 or email her at caroline.davis544@btinternet.com).

More information on Bill at Rainbow Bridge is available at or via the author’s Facebook page 

For more help with pet loss & pet bereavement support please contact:

PBSS free telephone befriender service 0800 096 6606

I hope you found my review helpful. 
You can also visit the Dignity Pet Crematorium Facebook page for help, advice & information on pet cremation services.

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All the best

Kevin










Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
The Rainbow Bridge is a very well know poem that has helped countless pet lovers over the years.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown
http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm